It’s time to go big.
No, I don’t mean our waistlines, despite all those yummy holiday cookies.
I mean our “mind-lines.”
All year, I’ve been chewing at this. What does GOING BIG really mean?
What’s all this stuff about “upleveling” your life, moving past blocks, and all that other fancy-schmacy talk for somehow breaking through a barrier in your thoughts or emotions?
I’ve been thinking deeply about why some people seem to race to the top of their profession, or have a breakthrough moment in their happiness level, or fall deeply, completely, and unexpectedly in love…
Why do some people seem to suddenly zoom past some limit that puts them in another stratosphere of living, while others just toil on?
I’ve been thinking so much about this because of YOU, all my friends and clients in my Mentoring Program.
Many of you have been breaking these barriers all year, and I’ve been closely following, always amazed when you each reach that inscrutable point (just like on the Daily Deal website) where you “tip.”
Like popcorn going off in a pan, what is the exact set of circumstances that make you “pop” past your old barriers and ways of thinking, and fully embrace a new world in which YOU are a powerful creator and manifestor, and nothing is outside of possibility for you anymore?
What is the common point, and the circumstances that lead to that moment?
Based on watching dozens of you do it, I’ve come up with five signs that you’re on the verge – the “tipping point” – of a major breakthrough in your thinking, success level, and in your life. Here’s the first:
Sign #1 That You’re About to “Tip” … and Go Big
1. You realize that you aren’t going to get anything you really want until you commit to it, with your whole heart and mind, and refuse any other options. Hazy desires are replaced with fierce knowing. You’ve learned to COMMAND your Flow. Your future becomes full of “whens” not “ifs.”
Looking back, I can see how I’ve wasted months and years filling my Flow with hazy goals and muddled desires. These are the vague feelings of want or lack, of wishing things were different. You feel like you want to grow and change or get something new going, but you’re aren’t really committed to it or focused about it. You’re in “wait and see how things develop” mode.
Then one day, you snap out of it. It’s like a switch gets flipped. You are no longer tolerating things you used to tolerate. You say, “Enough. I am going to have THIS.”
You say it with weight, meaning, and a deep knowing. You might be clueless how to get it, if it’s even the “right” choice, or what to do next. But you know without doubt that you will have it, and it will lead you to your next big step in life. (Or be it, do it, experience it, etc.) The tipping point is that you know, with total surety, that something is going to happen for you.
“I am going to have this” is one of the most powerful feelings you can emit in your Flow. It creates instant alignment and action. Things have to tumble into a new pattern in response to this.
Go ahead, say it to yourself right now about something. “I am going to have THIS.” See how it feels. You should sense it in your gut.
Next week, I’ll send you the next Tipping Point I see hugely successful people reach.
Until then, for those of you who want to move deeper into the idea of Going Big, please take a look at my M.E. School of Flow. In it, this is the kind of stuff we talk about and Flow with every week.
You’ll be surrounded by powerful friends who, like you, are deeply interested in how to use universal energy to create bigger, better things for themselves. And, I hold your hand along the way with monthly group sessions, and more. Our aim is to Go Big.
P.S. QUESTION: Have you ever experienced this tipping point? What happened as a result? Or, what was your response to saying/feeling the phrase, “I am going to have THIS”?
I’d love to hear it. Please leave a comment.
xoxo Summer
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