How can you make someone change? You can’t. Honestly, you can’t. But there is something you can do.
You know that feeling when someone you love keeps telling you to act different, be different? Spend your money differently, show up at work differently, show up in bed differently? You know how annoying that is? How you just want to smack them?
You wonder where they get off thinking that not only do they get total control over their own life, but now they think they get control over yours too? No way buddy. You get your life, I get mine.
Well they think this same way about you, so if you won’t change for them, they’re not going to change for you either.
There’s actually a way to make some movement on this.