Yesterday I had a private session with a delightful lady who was stuck in the mud. Not literally, of course. But her whole life (her flow, her vibe) was one stalled out, stuck, endless loop of indecision and subsequent anger at herself for being in this predicament.
“I’m stuck,” she said to me.
“I know,” I replied. “How’d you get this way?’
“I was hoping you’d tell me,” she said.
We picked and pulled on threads that led her to this point. But more importantly, I like to find solutions. I like to find open doorways that lead to the next point.
Being stuck is actually a misnomer. You’re aren’t stuck; you’ve just been sitting there at a pivot point for so long that you started to think all the roads and choices you had have disappeared.
They haven’t. You’ve just gotten blinder to them.
So how do we fix that?