Do you ever NOT Flow because deep down you're afraid of the changes it might create for you, or because you don't trust that everything will actually work out if you stop "white-knuckling" the steering wheel?
Your thoughts?
Why is it hard to TRUST your Flow?
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Posted 4 months ago #
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newlite
MemberThus far I have not experienced not wanting to flow because I am afraid of the changes, knowing that I am changing things actually makes me really excited (for me it is the motivating reason to flowdream). I am more deterred to flowdream when I mentally and physically feel sluggish during the visualization, or my thoughts are all over the place. When that happens it makes me feel discouraged because I have to put so much effort in to getting back into the flow. I also feel discouraged when flowdreaming brings up difficult feelings around certain situations, I have to fight through them to stay focused on the flowdreaming. But, the more I bring up those difficult feelings it is easier to feel detached and not feel so hurt by them...
Posted 4 months ago # -
I wouldn't say I'm afraid of flowdreaming, but I have noted the link between flowdreaming and fear of what has manifested in my life. (Example: I'd been flowdreaming for some specific things, and then my husband suddenly lost his job. It felt really bad and scary at first, but it ended up being exactly what needed to happen so that we could take advantage of other opportunities.)
I keep flowdreaming, but I'm never prepared for what flow brings, which leads to a reaction of fear at what has manifested until I start to see the events unfolding around me, and it clicks that flow has lead me exactly where I needed to be, and exactly in the manner I needed as well. It's always a shock when those big changes happen, and you would think that I'd be prepared for them, but I never am! So I repeat the cycle frequently: Flowdream, Manifest, Freak out at the changes, be thankful, accept and let go. Eventually, I hope to drop the freak out part, but who knows. Maybe I have it for a reason I've yet to understand.
Posted 3 months ago # -
Christl
MemberI tried to flowdream, but for me it is difficult to let go.
I always think I have to do something do get closer to my goal, a new fullfilling job, and not sit around and wait until something happens. But everything I try fails and I'm even more frustrated. I'm running in circles.
Posted 3 months ago # -
newlite
MemberHey Christl, I totally understand how you feel. From my experience I also have to to keep trying things to get me closer to my goal. It is easy to try all sorts of things, but the more challenging key part is knowing/deciding what thing to try amongst the many options. I think flowdreaming helps with the selection part, by helping me to stay calm, positive, and focused so I can "see" what the best choice is for me. Perhaps you are trying things that other people said/assume are good for you, when I do that I find myself running in circles. Good luck! ^_^ You will start moving forward soon...sometimes it just takes time... (as much as I hate to admit that... :-P)
Posted 3 months ago # -
Sometimes I don't know when I should be pushing harder to actually get something done and when to let go. Sometimes it seems I need to go through bumpy times to get to a higher level of flow. But sometimes the bumpiness means that I'm on the wrong track. It's hard to tell which is which until time passes. Would more trust in the flow bring fewer bumpy times and easier manifestation?
Posted 2 months ago #
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