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Comment on Your Flowdreaming Program: Simplified by Jenny

Jenny — Wed, 28 Dec 2011 22:41:20 +0000

Does it matter how long a flow dream lasts? Is it any less powerful to do a shorter dream, like from your podcast than to do an extended dream from the CDs?

Comment on “No, I Refuse to Change You. And Damn!…That Makes Me So Happy!”" by John page

John page — Wed, 28 Dec 2011 03:43:06 +0000

Once I statred focusing on myself and letting my anger go towards people a situations and all that thwy won’t let me stuff. I have to say it has made a big difference in my life not saying its all gone but I know I need to flowdream about what I want and need and love everyone else.

Comment on “No, I Refuse to Change You. And Damn!…That Makes Me So Happy!”" by Alex D

Alex D — Tue, 13 Dec 2011 03:32:30 +0000

after getting off the phone with my step father of 15 years (I am 17 a senior in high school) I googled “my parents want me to change but refuse to make any changes themselves” which brought me here. Reading this article gave me a different lookout on my life. althought.. it’s hard to have a positive outlook, looking at the situation I’m in, which I’ll try to explain soon).
I believe that I have some bad parenting parents, and of course everyone says the same thing. I’m definitely not saying I have the worst parents in the world because thats not even remotely close being true lol. My parents make it extremely hard for me to just live there and be a respectful kid.
they talk to me and my sibs in the nastiest tones, bitchy attitudes, make constant demands and have said they refused to make any changes themselves. they want me to be respectful and do what they say without any lip or any talkback or whatever but how?? how can I be nice and not get ma at people that treat me like shit. i very often tell them “if you just asked me in a normal tone, I wouldn’t even have any room to talkback or say anything.” for instance, my mom came into the pc room where I was, and starts saying “unmm you wanna walk your lazy ass downstairs and get your clothes from the basement” my typical response is “is that really necessary?? if you could just ask me at least semi politely like ‘hey alex can you go get your clothes from the basement please?’ if I was asked politely I wouldnt be able to respond with disrespectful words or anything. but what my parents say to this is “I don’t have to do shit… I’m a adult” I always ask “well what’s wrong with being a nice and polite?” it’s stubborn, selfish, and it’s ruining my life.

while I was on the phone with my stepdad I was telling him that I’m all hands in ready to make changes if he makes the changes with me. and he still says “I’m an adult, I don’t have to”. I told him this is a team effort we all need to work together especially my mom (she is the worst of the two) and he denies. he said I need to be a leader and do it myself. I told him “youre the man of the house, the one who’s in charge an you want me to lead the family??? that’s your job. I’m not asking you to do anything for me I just want us all to be happy here.” and still he refuses to even TRY and that frustrates me beyond belief. he said that once I leave (when I turn 18 in a months and get kicked out) that everyone’s problems will vanish.
my sister explained the other day when he said he didnt care about me. in the middle of our argument i brought it up to ask if it were true.. he said yes…
my parents are always yelling or demanding things from us…always. they never can just talk to me about anything. I want to be a music producer, I love making music its something im pretty good at so far and it’s something I love to do and is exactly why I want to pursue a career as a producer. my parents are not supportive in the least bit. I was on the pc making music for hours and my mom said later that same day, “did you even get any work done at all while your slapdicking around with your stupid music shit..” it hurt. but at the same time I was furious. are parents supposed to act like this!?? it’s NOT normal. when I said “it would be nice to get some support from my parents.. this is my future basically and you call it slapdicking around??” she responded saying, “support you how.. im not gonna hold your hand and feed you like a 2 year old”
I always answer back saying, im not asking you to do anything FOR me.. can’t we at least sit down and talk about stuff that’s really important (like college and my future etc. Im not asking you to do it all for me and I’m not asking for money or anything, I just want to talk about it, maybe set goals and stuff. whats wrong with that??? this is where my mom stops yelling and ignores me.
my family is middle class, mom got fired for never going to work. they said theyre not helping me pay for college, a car, insurance.. nothing.
Id be lying of I said I wasn’t worried about my future. if my parents aren’t helping me bounce ideas and refuse to work with me thru the college process then who will??? how am I going to get into anywhere with 0 dollars being offered up from my parents. I have a job but I don’t have grands in the bank (I wish lol). I feel like their setting me up to fail in life. I don’t know how to handle this situation. its sooo much stress.

if I give up trying to control my parents being like this, how do I stay cool and when I’m still living with people talk trash about me to my siblings and everyone else.

there’s a lot more could say.. but I need help forreal

Comment on How to Know What You Should Be Doing with Your Life by Michelle Sears

Michelle Sears — Mon, 10 Oct 2011 20:01:05 +0000

I love this post. It’s so true that if we just go with the Flow that it will eventually all work out just the way it’s supposed to. Instead we can beat ourselves up for not knowing exactly what were supposed to be doing with our life because we haven’t found our purpose yet.

I agree…stop looking so hard and just enjoy being who you are and enjoy doing what you’re doing. Because that’s how you’re going to find your passion by being 100% in the moment so that you don’t miss it when IT crosses your path.

Comment on “No, I Refuse to Change You. And Damn!…That Makes Me So Happy!”" by Michelle Sears

Michelle Sears — Mon, 10 Oct 2011 18:05:43 +0000

I have that same issue when I’m directing all my energy to change someone who isn’t ready, particularly this one person. So I have started to allow this person to come to me for help and advice instead of offering it up to her when she’s not ready for it. It’s a much better relationship for both of us now.

As women I feel we always want to help other women become their best. But sometimes the women we are trying to help are not ready to grow or make progress in their life.

I’ve found that I am much happier with this approach.

Comment on “No, I Refuse to Change You. And Damn!…That Makes Me So Happy!”" by Kimberly Thomas

Kimberly Thomas — Fri, 02 Sep 2011 20:40:32 +0000

Excellent article! It’s got me thinking about some of my own relationships that I will need to re-evaluate my thoughts about. I know I’m guilty of trying to change my loved ones too.
One thing that troubles me though, is that you seem to be of the opinion that if we can’t change someone, that ultimately we will end up having to let them go. I don’t think that’s necessarily the case. If we can think about the other person with love and hold a vision of them as healthy and successful and all that, perhaps just releasing the need to think about them according to our own needs and desires will be enough to allow us to stay with them comfortably? In other words, if we change our own thoughts, we won’t need for them to change anymore. Of course, that is likely to be a lot harder to do than to say! But it may be worth a try for those we truly want to keep in our lives.

Comment on What is Flowdreaming?: An Introduction by Alexb

Alexb — Sat, 13 Aug 2011 21:30:43 +0000

I am trying flowdreaming out of desperation. The man I love seems to hate me and we no longer communicate. No results yet

Comment on The Prosperity Challenge by Erin

Erin — Fri, 15 Jul 2011 00:58:24 +0000

I’m on day 8 of the Prosperity Challenge right now, and while I haven’t won the lottery (yet – it *will* happen. I feel it in my solar plexus!!), I am AMAZED at the huge emotional response I get while listening to the Flowdreams. I feel a visceral, overwhelming sensation of energy, joy – almost to the point of giddiness – whenever I listen to it. I’m trying to do it twice a day just for the sheer fun of it!
I attended an Abraham-Hicks Art of Allowing Workshop last month, and one of the things I heard that stuck with me is that the emotion *IS* a manifestation of thought. It’s the first indication that you are in the act of manifesting that which will bring that feeling to you. And if that’s the case (and considering the source, how could it not be?) I know that I have found the tool I have been seeking that will allow to me to manifest the life I’ve envisioned. Thank you so much, Summer, for this amazing material and most of all, for a practical (and fun!) tool to use. This is the beginning of a lifelong practice for me.

Comment on Do You Have a Destiny? What Has God Planned for You? by Michelle

Michelle — Tue, 12 Jul 2011 06:21:06 +0000

I have just read some of your idealology and philosophies and find it quite troublesome. I have been married for 22 years. I had two daughters from a previous marriage when we met. He loved them and they called him Daddy. We married and had a son. He was also married before. He was only married for 9 months because he caught his wife “in bed” with his best friend. They divorced and he “hated” her. Our middle daughter grew up and became a drug addict. She is a wonderful person with a horrible disease. She and her husband (also an addict) had two children. My husband and I gained custody of our grandchildren two years ago. The little boy is 5 and loves grandpa more than anything. The little girls is 2 and also loves her grandpa. My husband has not worked for 8 years. He got caught stealing from his job and was fired. He had an on-th-job injury and has been collecting L&I. Five neck surgeries later, he is still not working. I, on the other hand, have workied my butt off. I am a restaurant manager and I work nights. My husband was becoming more and more depressed and I begged him to get help. He took care of the children while I worked. When I came home from work, the kids would be asleep and he would be on the computer (usually gambling and drinking beer). I asked him to please not do that when he is caring for children. That was the most of our discussion. Here is where I get confused. My husband left me and the children in the middle of the night about a month and a half ago. He said he was “getting a new life elsewhere”. He wouldnt tell anyone where he was going or what he was doing. We still dont know where he lives. I discovered that he had looked up his ex-wife on Facebook and they were secretly meeting behind my back. I confronted him about this and he said that she had become his best friend and “Life-coach”. I was devistated. I looked her up on Facebook and lo and behold…she is an avid follower of YOU!!!!! Her name is Jeanne Gilroy Roth and my husband is Paul Savage. Now let me tell you how Flow Dreaming has affected my life. He is selfishly working on “being lucky” and manifesting happiness with his life coach. I am a single-hard-working grandmother of two small children. I am forced to move from my home because I can no longer afford it without my husband. I am forced to find night-care for the children. My oldest daughter who just had her first born child is now forced to take care of my two grandchildren while I work. I love my husband and married him for better or worse. He did the same but is not keeping his promise. His Flow-Dreaming has negatively impacted the life of small children, his daughters and our son. I can not believe that you preach that kind of SELFISHNESS to Jeanne Gilroy Roth or anyone else. I stood by him through all of the crap he put us through. His dishonesty, drinking, gambling, 5 neck surgeries, mothers’ death, etc., etc. and for all of that he abandons his family!

Comment on How to Know What You Should Be Doing with Your Life by Teresa Beyer

Teresa Beyer — Mon, 06 Jun 2011 01:04:51 +0000

My Flow Energy has brought me to much abundance at once. I’m at a major crossroads in my life. My oldest son (34) has barely spoken to me in the past year or so. He has a two year old son and one year old daughter.
I have been in a volatile and passionate relationship with Fiance for three and a half years.
My son has asked me to open and work with him and his father-in-law. They are opening a new business in the downtown L.A. Produce Market. I would be returning to CA to rent a home because of my three dogs and living that grind that I left in ‘05′ the congestion, traffic and crime. Oh and earthquakes.
My Fiance has taken a great job with a Fortune 500 Company in San Antonio, TX. Where I would be able to travel with him and bring the dogs. We would have a home with a yard and I would have the luxury of pursuing my art.
Going to San Antonio would end all contact with my son, at least for some time.
Going to CA I would be with family and grandchildren and not painting or not much. And also at the risk of loosing my relationship with my fiance.
I invite suggestions.
Warm Regards,
Teresa