Comments on: Some People Are Just Not Going to Like You http://flowdreaming.com/blog/2009/02/10/some-people-are-just-not-going-to-like-you/ Wed, 28 Dec 2011 22:41:20 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Candace http://flowdreaming.com/blog/2009/02/10/some-people-are-just-not-going-to-like-you/comment-page-1/#comment-653 Candace Wed, 30 Mar 2011 01:24:32 +0000 http://flowdreaming.com/blog/?p=110#comment-653 Summer, wow, I know you wrote this post a while ago but it still resonates with me right this second. I'm an author, and if a book I write resonates with 1000 people, and one person writes me a cranky email, that one person can totally derail me. This post has got me to thinking, what about the thousand others? Thank you for all you do, I so appreciate it. Summer, wow, I know you wrote this post a while ago but it still resonates with me right this second. I’m an author, and if a book I write resonates with 1000 people, and one person writes me a cranky email, that one person can totally derail me. This post has got me to thinking, what about the thousand others? Thank you for all you do, I so appreciate it.

]]> By: Fred http://flowdreaming.com/blog/2009/02/10/some-people-are-just-not-going-to-like-you/comment-page-1/#comment-644 Fred Thu, 27 Jan 2011 00:41:05 +0000 http://flowdreaming.com/blog/?p=110#comment-644 Wow. After reading this i feel like teasing a bunch of people to test their friendship. I feel so much better reading this. People pleasing can be so insane. Love you!! Wow. After reading this i feel like teasing a bunch of people to test their friendship. I feel so much better reading this. People pleasing can be so insane. Love you!!

]]> By: Teri http://flowdreaming.com/blog/2009/02/10/some-people-are-just-not-going-to-like-you/comment-page-1/#comment-185 Teri Wed, 14 Apr 2010 21:15:46 +0000 http://flowdreaming.com/blog/?p=110#comment-185 I needed this reminder so much because it is so true, I spend so much time and energy worrying about those few people who don't like me and so little time sharing with and embracing those who do. Thank you! I needed this reminder so much because it is so true, I spend so much time and energy worrying about those few people who don’t like me and so little time sharing with and embracing those who do.
Thank you!

]]> By: Evita http://flowdreaming.com/blog/2009/02/10/some-people-are-just-not-going-to-like-you/comment-page-1/#comment-170 Evita Fri, 09 Apr 2010 16:09:09 +0000 http://flowdreaming.com/blog/?p=110#comment-170 Hello Everyone, I have a question and humbly ask for feedback on this. I began using Flowdreaming last summer in many areas of my life. I'm seeing a lot of improvement. However, in my love life I still have emotions and things I am trying to deal with to get on track. I met a gentleman last summer and we've been talking, trying to get to know one another. However, I feel at times he is not ready to get close to me because he told me he is not ready for a relationship but doesn't mind getting close to me. The thing is, I want to get close to him and develop a relationship with him...this has been my strong desire for the past few years, I just haven't met a man yet until I met him that I felt there was some compatibility there. How would you recommend me dealing with this situation? I'm open to suggestions and making the best decision for myself and for him. Thank You, Evita Alpheaus Hello Everyone,

I have a question and humbly ask for feedback on this.

I began using Flowdreaming last summer in many areas of my life. I’m seeing a lot of improvement. However, in my love life I still have emotions and things I am trying to deal with to get on track.
I met a gentleman last summer and we’ve been talking, trying to get to know one another. However, I feel at times he is not ready to get close to me because he told me he is not ready for a relationship but doesn’t mind getting close to me.
The thing is, I want to get close to him and develop a relationship with him…this has been my strong desire for the past few years, I just haven’t met a man yet until I met him that I felt there was some compatibility there.

How would you recommend me dealing with this situation?

I’m open to suggestions and making the best decision for myself and for him.

Thank You,

Evita Alpheaus

]]> By: Nicole http://flowdreaming.com/blog/2009/02/10/some-people-are-just-not-going-to-like-you/comment-page-1/#comment-144 Nicole Sun, 07 Mar 2010 15:47:05 +0000 http://flowdreaming.com/blog/?p=110#comment-144 Some people may be quite jealous…it could be that they secretly fear you. It is not always about dislike. And like Seinfeld, people come and go constantly in life…things change. I love the episode where George is drawn to Jerry’s girlfriend, the masseue, because she most certainly does not like him. He told his own girlfriend, “Yes! I must be liked! By everyone! and dammit…that woman hates me so much…its irrsistible”, thereby losing his own girlfriend to pursue Jerry’s. Some people may be quite jealous…it could be that they secretly fear you. It is not always about dislike. And like Seinfeld, people come and go constantly in life…things change. I love the episode where George is drawn to Jerry’s girlfriend, the masseue, because she most certainly does not like him. He told his own girlfriend, “Yes! I must be liked! By everyone! and dammit…that woman hates me so much…its irrsistible”, thereby losing his own girlfriend to pursue Jerry’s.

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]]> By: pj http://flowdreaming.com/blog/2009/02/10/some-people-are-just-not-going-to-like-you/comment-page-1/#comment-127 pj Wed, 20 May 2009 17:50:02 +0000 http://flowdreaming.com/blog/?p=110#comment-127 I liked what you had to say. I am pretty silly and funny, I guess, I don't know something like that, and it seems there is always someone around who doesnt like me and sometime that makes me all quite and then I don't meet new people, or I hide the part of me that SOME people like, in that way I can end up looking uptight at a party say if someone around me doesn't like me or whatever. I have learned that if I give into a couple of people that don't like me and hide away, well then I don't know anyone and nobody will know me. I have learned (or am trying to learn) how to either ignore that persons energy, I find it really hard, or keep living in spite of them. But sometimes (or all the time) as I am a very open and understanding person, I DO like the person that doesn't like me, I wan't to learn from everyone, but I have had to start looking at them and thinking crazy things like < they wish they were like me, or they are a bore. ... or what not, I am not sure I am just replaceing my positive thoughts with negative ones for them... but it works. I liked what you had to say. I am pretty silly and funny, I guess, I don’t know something like that, and it seems there is always someone around who doesnt like me and sometime that makes me all quite and then I don’t meet new people, or I hide the part of me that SOME people like, in that way I can end up looking uptight at a party say if someone around me doesn’t like me or whatever.

I have learned that if I give into a couple of people that don’t like me and hide away, well then I don’t know anyone and nobody will know me.

I have learned (or am trying to learn) how to either ignore that persons energy, I find it really hard, or keep living in spite of them. But sometimes (or all the time) as I am a very open and understanding person, I DO like the person that doesn’t like me, I wan’t to learn from everyone, but I have had to start looking at them and thinking crazy things like < they wish they were like me, or they are a bore. … or what not, I am not sure I am just replaceing my positive thoughts with negative ones for them… but it works.

]]> By: Elizabeth http://flowdreaming.com/blog/2009/02/10/some-people-are-just-not-going-to-like-you/comment-page-1/#comment-117 Elizabeth Tue, 07 Apr 2009 22:32:47 +0000 http://flowdreaming.com/blog/?p=110#comment-117 You know, when someone doesn't like me, I realize it really isn't about me. They are usually reacting to some truth that I have unveiled that challenges their beliefs or "stuck"ness. And anyway, if they don't like me, they don't like themselves, because if we are all one, and we are all god, then me and that person are both god, and they are only disliking an aspect of god/themself. And that's okay. Some parts of my personality are unlikeable to some people, and that's okay. When I'm REALLY feeling unliked, I remind myself that I'm not here (on earth) to make friends, I'm here to make CHANGE. And people are generally resistant to that. so, the mantra is: I'M NOT HERE TO BE LIKED, I'M HERE TO MAKE CHANGE You know, when someone doesn’t like me, I realize it really isn’t about me. They are usually reacting to some truth that I have unveiled that challenges their beliefs or “stuck”ness. And anyway, if they don’t like me, they don’t like themselves, because if we are all one, and we are all god, then me and that person are both god, and they are only disliking an aspect of god/themself. And that’s okay. Some parts of my personality are unlikeable to some people, and that’s okay. When I’m REALLY feeling unliked, I remind myself that I’m not here (on earth) to make friends, I’m here to make CHANGE. And people are generally resistant to that.
so,
the mantra is:

I’M NOT HERE TO BE LIKED, I’M HERE TO MAKE CHANGE

]]> By: jude http://flowdreaming.com/blog/2009/02/10/some-people-are-just-not-going-to-like-you/comment-page-1/#comment-110 jude Tue, 24 Mar 2009 19:02:02 +0000 http://flowdreaming.com/blog/?p=110#comment-110 one can hear your confidence growing in your voice. one can hear your confidence growing in your voice.

]]> By: María http://flowdreaming.com/blog/2009/02/10/some-people-are-just-not-going-to-like-you/comment-page-1/#comment-108 María Sat, 21 Mar 2009 16:58:35 +0000 http://flowdreaming.com/blog/?p=110#comment-108 I've just discoved this blog and I love it. It's wonderful to see that many people has had similar experiences as me. I've been a pleaser until recently and this was so unpleasant for me. I'm learning to act the way I really want and it's not easy though. The hardest thing is to find out that a person who you though you had a good feeling with, suddenly doesn't like you. But it's even worse to maintain that relationship of disrespect. Thanks Summer for sharing your thoughts with us. María I’ve just discoved this blog and I love it. It’s wonderful to see that many people has had similar experiences as me. I’ve been a pleaser until recently and this was so unpleasant for me. I’m learning to act the way I really want and it’s not easy though. The hardest thing is to find out that a person who you though you had a good feeling with, suddenly doesn’t like you. But it’s even worse to maintain that relationship of disrespect.

Thanks Summer for sharing your thoughts with us.

María

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